Patriots & Principles · Grade 3

Hearts of Kindness

Month 1

Kindness, Honesty, Courage & Obedience
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Kindness
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Honesty
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Courage
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Obedience
20 True Stories from the Bible & American History
"Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, as God in Christ forgave you."
β€” Ephesians 4:32 (ESV)
Republic LLC · © 2026 · Ages 8–9
Dear Parent,

This book is Month 1 of the Patriots & Principles Grade 3 series. This month, your child will explore four essential character traits: Kindness, Honesty, Courage, and Obedience.

Each week focuses on one character trait, taught through four true stories: two from the Bible and two from American history. Every story is historically verified. Biblical passages are quoted from the ESV. American heroes are documented from primary sources.

Grade 3 stories are written for readers ages 8–9. They include historical context, deeper vocabulary, and compare-and-contrast thinking. Each Day 5 invites your child to compare how two heroes from different eras showed the same virtue β€” and what made each unique.

The balance is intentional: one man and one woman from Scripture, one man and one woman from American history, every week. Your child will see that God uses all kinds of people to do extraordinary things.

Read together. Ask the reflection questions. Let these true stories build real character, one day at a time.

Patriots & Principles · Grade 3 · Month 1: Hearts of Kindness

What's Inside

WEEK 1: KINDNESS

Day 1 · Jonathan's Kindness (1 Samuel 20:14-17)
Day 2 · Abigail's Kindness (1 Samuel 25:18-35)
Day 3 · Theodore Roosevelt's Kindness (1902 hunting trip)
Day 4 · Dorothea Dix's Kindness (Reform of asylums, 1843)
Day 5 · Champions of Kindness

WEEK 2: HONESTY

Day 1 · Joseph's Honesty (Genesis 42–45)
Day 2 · Deborah's Honesty (Judges 4)
Day 3 · Abraham Lincoln's Honesty (Documented integrity as a lawyer)
Day 4 · Harriet Tubman's Honesty (Underground Railroad)
Day 5 · Champions of Honesty

WEEK 3: COURAGE

Day 1 · Elijah's Courage (1 Kings 18)
Day 2 · Jael's Courage (Judges 4:17-22)
Day 3 · Theodore Roosevelt's Courage (San Juan Hill, 1898)
Day 4 · Clara Barton's Courage (Civil War battlefields)
Day 5 · Champions of Courage

WEEK 4: OBEDIENCE

Day 1 · Isaiah's Obedience (Isaiah 6:8)
Day 2 · Esther's Obedience (Esther 4:16)
Day 3 · Robert E. Lee's Obedience (Choosing Virginia, 1861)
Day 4 · Susanna Wesley's Obedience (Raising John & Charles Wesley)
Day 5 · Champions of Obedience
Every story is true. Every hero is real.
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Week 1

Kindness

"Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, as God in Christ forgave you."
β€” Ephesians 4:32 (ESV)
Week 1: Kindness · Day 1
Jonathan's Kindness
1 Samuel 20:14–17
Jonathan Jonathan

Jonathan was a prince who could have had everything he wanted. His father Saul was the king of Israel, and one day the throne would pass to Jonathan himself β€” or so everyone expected. But Jonathan had done something unusual for a prince: he had given his heart in friendship to a shepherd boy named David, the same David who had defeated the giant Goliath with a stone and a sling. Their friendship was not one of convenience or politics. It was the truest kind β€” built on loyalty and love and the shared knowledge that God was at the center of both their lives.

As the years passed, King Saul grew jealous of David. The people sang songs praising David's victories, and the king's heart curdled with suspicion and rage. He had already hurled a spear at David twice. Jonathan watched his father's darkness growing and knew that David's life was in danger. He could have stepped back, protected his own future, and said nothing. Instead, he went to David and warned him. He helped David escape. He risked his father's terrible anger β€” and even his own chance at the throne β€” to keep his friend safe.

One day Jonathan asked David a question that came from the deepest place in his heart. He knew that God had chosen David to be the next king of Israel. He knew that David would win and his own family's power would pass away. So Jonathan looked at his friend and said: "Show me the kindness of the LORD when I am gone. And do not cut off your kindness from my house forever." He was asking David to remember his children β€” the ones who would come after him β€” with the same love they shared now.

Week 1: Kindness · Day 1 (continued)

David's eyes filled with tears. He made a solemn promise β€” a covenant before God. "The LORD shall be between me and you, and between my offspring and your offspring, forever." They embraced, these two young men who both knew that hard days were coming, and they held onto the one thing that could survive any storm: kindness sworn in the name of God.

Years later, after Saul had died and David ruled as king over all Israel, he remembered his promise. He asked his servants, "Is there anyone left from the house of Saul to whom I can show kindness for Jonathan's sake?" And they found Jonathan's son Mephibosheth β€” lame in both feet, living far away, forgotten. David brought him to Jerusalem, restored all of Saul's lands to him, and gave him a seat at the royal table for the rest of his life. A kindness sworn between two boys became a kindness that outlasted both their deaths.

Jonathan taught us that true kindness is not just a feeling β€” it is a decision you make and keep even when it costs you something. He chose his friend over his future, and his name has been honored for three thousand years because of it.

Jonathan chose his friend's life over his own future. Think of a time you chose to be kind to someone even when it was hard. What happened?

πŸ“– "Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, as God in Christ forgave you." β€” Ephesians 4:32 (ESV) · Memory Verse for Week 1

✏️ Today's Activity: Coloring Page

Draw Jonathan and David making their promise of kindness to each other. Show their hands clasped together in covenant friendship!

One way I can show kindness like Jonathan today:

Week 1: Kindness · Day 2
Abigail's Kindness
1 Samuel 25:18–35
Abigail Abigail

Abigail was married to a man named Nabal, whose name meant "fool" β€” and he lived up to it completely. He was rich, owning three thousand sheep and a thousand goats, but he was also selfish, rude, and proud. Abigail, however, was everything her husband was not. She was beautiful in spirit as much as in appearance β€” quick-thinking, generous, and deeply wise. While Nabal shouted and sneered, Abigail watched and listened and planned how to do good in whatever situation she found herself.

One day David and his men β€” six hundred soldiers living rough in the wilderness β€” sent a peaceful message to Nabal during sheep-shearing season. David's men had been protecting Nabal's shepherds in the fields for months, never stealing, never threatening. Now they asked for a share of the feast. It was a reasonable request, and David had been respectful and kind in making it. But Nabal answered with contempt: "Who is David? Why should I give my bread and water to men I don't even know?"

The messengers rode back to David with those cold words ringing in their ears. David's jaw tightened. His fists clenched. "Strap on your swords!" he commanded his men. Four hundred armed warriors fell into line. TRAMP, TRAMP, TRAMP β€” they marched toward Nabal's estate. David was angry, and he intended to make Nabal pay for his insult with his life and the lives of every man in his household.

Week 1: Kindness · Day 2 (continued)

But one of Nabal's young servants had seen everything. He ran to Abigail. "My lady, David sent messengers to our master β€” and Nabal turned them away with insults. Now David is coming with four hundred men. We are all in danger!" Abigail didn't panic. She didn't freeze. She moved like a person who had already thought through what kindness requires when the stakes are highest.

She loaded two hundred loaves of bread, two skins of wine, five dressed sheep, roasted grain, one hundred clusters of raisins, and two hundred cakes of figs onto donkeys. CLIP-CLOP, CLIP-CLOP β€” she rode hard down the mountain path without telling Nabal a word. She met David in a ravine, jumped from her donkey, and bowed to the ground before him. Then she spoke with quiet courage: "Please, my lord, the blame is on me. Let not my master pay attention to this worthless man Nabal. Please forgive this trespass. God will build you a lasting house, and your conscience will not be troubled for having shed innocent blood in anger."

David stopped. He breathed out slowly. "Blessed be the LORD God of Israel who sent you to meet me today! And blessed be your wisdom, which has kept me from doing something I would regret forever." He accepted her gifts and turned his men around. Abigail's kindness β€” offered at personal risk, with clear eyes and a full heart β€” had saved her household and protected David from a terrible mistake. Kindness, at its finest, is not passive. Sometimes it rides down a mountain to stop a disaster.

Abigail showed kindness not just with bread and figs, but with brave and wise words. How can your words be an act of kindness today?

πŸ“– "Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, as God in Christ forgave you." β€” Ephesians 4:32 (ESV) · Memory Verse for Week 1

✏️ Today's Activity: Drawing Prompt

Draw Abigail riding her donkey loaded with gifts, bowing before David in the ravine to make peace. Show her courage and kindness!

One way I can show kindness like Abigail today:

Week 1: Kindness · Day 3
Theodore Roosevelt's Kindness
The Teddy Bear — 1902 Hunting Trip, Mississippi
Theodore Roosevelt Theodore Roosevelt

Theodore Roosevelt was the twenty-sixth President of the United States, and he was not the kind of man anyone expected to become famous for kindness to a bear. He was large and boisterous, a decorated war hero who had charged up a hill in Cuba under fire, a boxer and a horseman and a wilderness explorer. He loved the outdoors with his whole being β€” he had hunted buffalo on the Great Plains and stalked grizzly bears in the mountains. But it was on a hunting trip in Mississippi in November 1902 that the whole world learned something surprising about the rough and ready President.

Roosevelt had traveled south to settle a border dispute between Louisiana and Mississippi, and he combined the trip with a bear hunt. His guides had been working hard to find game for him all week. On the last day, his party came upon an old black bear that had been chased down and tied to a willow tree by the guide dogs. The guides called for Roosevelt. "Come, Mr. President! Here is your bear!" They expected him to be pleased. It would be an easy shot β€” a trophy to cap the trip.

Roosevelt rode up. He looked at the animal. The bear was old and exhausted, its sides heaving, its eyes rolling with fear. It was tied and helpless. Something hardened in Roosevelt's chest. He shook his head slowly. "This is not hunting," he said quietly. "A hunter does not shoot a captured animal. It is not sportsmanlike. It is not fair. Let it go." He turned his horse and rode away.

Week 1: Kindness · Day 3 (continued)

The story traveled fast. A political cartoonist named Clifford Berryman drew a cartoon for The Washington Post showing Roosevelt turning away from the little bear, refusing to shoot. He called it "Drawing the Line in Mississippi." Americans saw the cartoon and felt something warm in their chests. Their big, tough President had been kind to an animal that couldn't protect itself.

A toymaker in Brooklyn named Morris Michtom saw the cartoon too. He made a small stuffed bear with button eyes and put it in his shop window with a handwritten sign: "Teddy's Bear." He wrote to President Roosevelt to ask permission to use his name. Roosevelt β€” who went by "Teddy" β€” wrote back with a chuckle, saying he doubted his name would be much use to a toy bear. He was wrong. Within a year, stuffed "Teddy Bears" were being sold across the country. They have never stopped selling since.

Roosevelt went on to create 150 national forests, 51 federal bird reservations, 4 national game preserves, and 5 national parks. He protected 230 million acres of American land. His kindness to one tired bear in Mississippi was not a coincidence β€” it was the natural expression of a man who believed that power over living things comes with the responsibility to protect them, not destroy them. Theodore Roosevelt showed that kindness is just as much a part of strength as courage.

Roosevelt showed kindness to an animal when no one would have blamed him for shooting it. What does it tell you about a person when they show kindness even when they don't have to?

πŸ“– "Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, as God in Christ forgave you." β€” Ephesians 4:32 (ESV) · Memory Verse for Week 1

✏️ Today's Activity: Compare & Contrast

Jonathan and Theodore Roosevelt both showed kindness β€” but in very different ways. Compare them!

Same

Different

One way I can show kindness like Theodore today:

Week 1: Kindness · Day 4
Dorothea Dix's Kindness
Reforming the Treatment of the Mentally Ill — 1843
Dorothea Dix Dorothea Dix

Dorothea Dix was a quiet schoolteacher in Massachusetts who had spent years teaching children and writing books. She had never planned to change the world. But in the winter of 1841, a friend asked her to teach a Sunday school class at the East Cambridge House of Correction β€” a local jail. Dorothea said yes. What she found inside that jail shook her to the core and set the course of the rest of her life.

In the unheated rooms of the jail, she found people who were mentally ill β€” people suffering from serious illness of the mind β€” chained to walls and locked in cells alongside criminals. They had no beds, no warmth, no care. Some were barely clothed in the biting Massachusetts winter. The jailers explained it casually: "They don't feel the cold." Dorothea stared at the shivering figures around her. Her heart ached with a kindness so deep it became fury. "This is wrong," she said, and she meant it in her bones.

She spent the next eighteen months traveling all over Massachusetts, visiting every jail, almshouse, and house of correction she could find. She took notes. She kept records. She documented the filth, the chains, the cruelty, and the neglect. Then she stood before the Massachusetts legislature β€” in 1843, when women simply did not do such things β€” and read her report aloud. It began: "I come to present the strong claims of suffering humanity." The room fell completely silent.

Week 1: Kindness · Day 4 (continued)

Some legislators scoffed. Some said she was exaggerating, that she was being overly emotional, that this was not a matter for a woman to address. Dorothea answered every argument with cold fact after cold fact from her own careful records. She would not be dismissed. She would not be silenced. She had seen what she had seen, and she intended to make the legislators see it too β€” and then do something about it.

They did. Massachusetts passed legislation to expand and improve the state hospital for the mentally ill. Dorothea didn't stop there. Over the next forty years, she traveled to every state in the Union and several countries in Europe, investigating conditions and pushing lawmakers to build proper hospitals and provide humane care for people who could not advocate for themselves. She founded or expanded thirty-two hospitals. She served as Superintendent of Army Nurses during the Civil War. She was, by any measure, one of the most effective advocates for the vulnerable that America has ever produced.

Dorothea Dix's kindness was not soft or sentimental. It was fierce and informed and unstoppable. She saw suffering that others had decided to ignore, and she decided that she could not look away. Real kindness, she showed us, sometimes means speaking loudly for people who have no voice of their own β€” even when the room is full of people who would rather you stay quiet.

Dorothea Dix spoke up for people others had forgotten. Who in your school or neighborhood might need someone to speak up for them? How could you be kind to them?

πŸ“– "Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, as God in Christ forgave you." β€” Ephesians 4:32 (ESV) · Memory Verse for Week 1

✏️ Today's Activity: Sticker Reward

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Place your sticker here! You completed Week 1: Kindness.

One way I can show kindness like Dorothea today:

Week 1: Kindness · Day 5
Champions of Kindness
Putting it all together
Champions of Kindness Champions of Kindness

This week you met four remarkable people who all lived out the same virtue β€” kindness β€” in four completely different ways. Jonathan the prince risked his future and his father's rage to protect his best friend David, making a covenant of kindness that would stretch across generations. He proved that real kindness is a decision you keep even when it costs you dearly.

Abigail the wise woman loaded donkeys with bread and rode hard down a mountain to stop a disaster. With brave and generous words, she showed kindness to an angry man, a foolish husband, and an entire household β€” all at once. She proved that kindness can be bold and fast and even strategic.

Theodore Roosevelt, the rough-riding President, looked at a tired bear tied to a tree and said no β€” he would not shoot it. His simple act of fairness to an animal launched the most beloved toy in American history and expressed a conservation ethic that protected hundreds of millions of acres of wild land. He proved that kindness to the smallest creatures matters.

And Dorothea Dix walked into jails in the freezing Massachusetts winter and refused to look away from suffering that everyone else had decided was not their problem. She spoke with facts and fire before legislatures across the nation, and her kindness built thirty-two hospitals. She proved that the most powerful kindness of all is the kind that refuses to be silent.

Which hero would YOU want to meet? What question would you ask them about kindness?

πŸ“– "Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, as God in Christ forgave you." β€” Ephesians 4:32 (ESV)

✏️ Compare & Contrast: Kindness

How was Jonathan's kindness similar to Theodore Roosevelt's? How was it different?

Same

Different

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